Asia · Japan

Sugar dating in Tokyo

Tokyo

Precision, elegance and an appreciation for the well-made. Tokyo's scene is refined and private — property dynasties and executives who value impeccable manners, attentiveness and a man who notices the small details.

Where it happens

Ginza cocktail bars

Hushed, masterful and the height of taste.

Omotesando cafés

Stylish and relaxed for a daytime meet.

Teamlab & gallery dates

Memorable and conversation-rich.

Tokyo at a glance

1,050+

Active members

54

Avg. age (her)

Ginza

Most popular spot

Quick answers

How important are manners?

Paramount. Punctuality, politeness and attentiveness are deeply attractive here.

Best first-date area?

Ginza for evenings, Omotesando for a calm daytime start.

A few of them in Tokyo

Hiroko, 56

Hiroko, 56

Property dynasty

Ji-woo, 50

Ji-woo, 50

Cosmetics empire

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